You are, I believe, what is commonly referred to as a 'simp'. If you actually look at what Jill does, rather than what she says, she doesn't care about your interests. She only cares that SHE gets to try and intervene, whether you want it or not. She's doing it all for herself. She is a very selfish, naive individual, to the point that if you have the audacity to take time out to care for a sick friend she deems you unworthy of dating.
Fuck. That. Goblin.
I told her to stay out of things, she kept butting in. I tell her not to do things, she does them anyway. I get roped into crashing in her bed, and she sleep-humps my hand. She doesn't understand nor respect MC's personal boundaries at all. The only person she shows true respect for is Bella.