- Jul 3, 2021
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I am a widower, and I know quite a few widows and widowers (in support groups). Many of them feel guilty and like they would be cheating if they met someone new after losing their spouse. After many years of marriage you have it programmed into your brain that you do not even consider anyone else as that is cheating. It is a thought process that is a part of your being and can take a long time to overcome that feeling that you are cheating somehow after they are gone.Hi, you're right, but that's not how a person will necessarily feel when widowed dude.
In fact I think Widowed is quite possible due to the whole scene where Jill is upset with Bella yet even then has this reaction.
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I could be wrong but that to me comes off as Jill being like 'Bella, come on you know that's not true'
I have been able to overcome that feeling and convince others that they are single and it is okay to see someone new, but it takes time and could apply to this story.
Bella is my favourite, she was before I lost my wife, even more so now as I do feel like she may be a widow. But there is a hidden story in all of that and Jill is involved.
When Bella removed her ring that was enormous. I know many widows and widowers who have a hard time removing it. It takes A LOT to do that and is VERY emotional for them. I was very moved by the scene when Bella done that. Personally, I never had a problem as I wasn't one who liked wearing the ring in the first place (I'm almost happy I didn't now, one less thing to overcome).