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I know this is a stupid question but what's the difference between harem relationship and polyamory relationship?
 

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Basically it's a group serving one (or a select few) verse a group of co-equales in the relationship.
 
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D dating another woman is a way for her to have a new social experience, and being the dominant party could add a thrill for her. D could be expressing her self-confidence by assuming the controlling role.

IMO build up is often more thrilling than the event. Think how happy you are when you leave work knowing that your vacation starts that moment. For the players the thrill can be witnessing D going from curiosity to deciding to go for it, to finding the right girl, asking her out and finally going on the date.
Hey, you don't have to convince *me* - you saw my post about a D/s buildup scenario, riffing off what you offered earlier ... this is all to subtly throw ideas at Jeff so that he'll hopefully muse on them and bring them back to the team, eventually GIVING US MORE OF WHAT WE WANT.

Oh, maybe I shouldn't have said that out loud ...
 

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Well, I'm not thinking trendy - as it is, D/s has been around for a looooong time - as the notion of D being the boss for a new assistant-type woman would seem to easily lend towards exploration in this area.

D has a penchant for soaking up new social experiences in this novel, so it feels like a natural extension of that inclination to explore new things, find she enjoys them and then really get into it all.

On your point about her having a relationship with a woman being necessarily different in meaning than with a man, I would offer that Men Aren't From Mars and Women Aren't From Venus - individuals vary and attitudes go along with them for a couple's dynamic, but there are more similarities than differences between the sexes.
What I was saying was that, for me, any kind of relation she may have with a woman would "feel" different than if it was a man, in other words it would not disturb me at all and i would feel no jealousy. It would not mean "competition" for me. While with a man a ROMANTIC relation would disturb me, coz we would compete on the SAME position in her heart. I would no longer be the ONLY man in her heart. If it was a woman, i would still be the ONLY MAN :) And I'm talking about her HEART not about her pussy. Her pussy would be free for all if we so agree. Sex is sex and love is love.. I would only have a problem with the idea of sharing her LOVE with another MAN. And I think I explained why and with what exception.
 
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Are there any news about DMD development? Because it now seems that he is fully invested in this new game Sunshine Love. It would be a pitty to see this game rushed and unfinished. Melody got already ruined by rushed ending.
 
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Are there any news about DMD development? Because it now seems that he is fully invested in this new game Sunshine Love. It would be a pitty to see this game rushed and unfinished. Melody got already ruined by rushed ending.
That's right about Melody! I just finished playing Sunshine Love and in my opinion it sux (from several points of view) . And since Melody was, as you mentioned, fucked up at the end, DMD is still and will remain THE BEST! I hope DMD will go on as it should and as it deserves. I'm very glad to hear from the replies to my previous posts that some of the ways I would like DMD to go on are indeed considered if not already in the works. Can hardly wait for the next DMD update!
 

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Are there any news about DMD development? Because it now seems that he is fully invested in this new game Sunshine Love. It would be a pitty to see this game rushed and unfinished. Melody got already ruined by rushed ending.
How was Melody's ending rushed? The news about DMD development is that they're switching to a five week development period rather than 4 to give themselves more time.
 
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mizilic

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I know this is a stupid question but what's the difference between harem relationship and polyamory relationship?
In a harem the male has relations with each of the women in that harem, 1 on 1 o 3-4 somes but those women don't necessarily have strong relations with each other (although they may). But basically harem relations are mainly sexual with maybe 1 of the females being the favorite. Polyamory however involves FEELINGS. Love among the people involved in a polyamory relationship, not only sex. There are different possible combinations in polyamory relatioships but the type discussed here in relation with DMD is that of a man (in this case F) being in either a harem or a polyamory relation with D + 1 (or 2) of the other characters who could fill that role (like Elena or Georgina or Jen or even Rachel.. or any 2 of them). The kind of relation that would come out of such combinations would more probably be a polyamory thing rather than a harem. Because strong FEELINGS already exist between each of the participants and each other participant, within the limits of the DMD story but also with the potential of developing those feelings even more.
 
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How was Melody's ending rushed? The news about DMD development is that they're switching to a five week development period rather than 4 to give themselves more time.
It was rushed like hell! The last 2-3 updates (mostly the last one) were clearly made under the pressure of having to finish it till December 2019 and that was clearly visible in most compartments: story, writing, dialogues, spelling, animations (or the lack of them), etc. Even by some renders although that's MrDots strongest skill.
EDIT: And most of all, one could feel wile playing that the minds and the hearts of the makers were no longer by Melody in the last 2-3 updates. They didn't FEEL for it anymore! In their minds and hearts the game was already finished and they were now focused on the next project. And that was highly unpleasant for anybody who invested their feelings in this otherwise very good game. We didn't deserve that rush, mostly not at the end(s)!

As for DMD, since that's the "real good one" out of all MrDots games, i will just wait 1 week longer if it must be, because I know that, unlike by Sunshine Love, it will be worth waiting.
 
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Hasn't been enough of it yet to make a difference- only light spanking and 1 handcuffing scene so far in 2.5 chapters
Yes but remember those BDSM POINTS that we kept getting along the game till recently. I personally hope that that line has been abandoned coz i'm not into BDSM but i can not be sure after getting all those points in the past..
 
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I personally hope that that line has been abandoned coz i'm not into BDSM but i can not be sure after getting all those points in the past..
So you say you don't like BDSM but you have accumulated BDSM points?

Something doesn't add up here- its ok to be honest with yourself- you lead a happier life
 

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So you say you don't like BDSM but you have accumulated BDSM points?

Something doesn't add up here- its ok to be honest with yourself- you lead a happier life
I was absolutely sure a reply like this one will come :) Because i didn't want to lose too much time to explain in my previous post that:
- In some cases those BDSM points were not avoidable. Whenever they were avoidable i did avoid them.
- In some other cases they were connected with other kind of points that i wanted to have like exhibition or sharing points, or tits or butt points.. So i clicked to get what I wanted even if that meant to get also some BDSM points when i clicked.
- I'm not into BDSM but it doesn't disturb me either, i can basically even enjoy some light bondage (if it's not on me lol). What I can really not enjoy at all are the sado-maso and the dom-sub aspects and generally violence and pain.. Since I didn't know what type of BDSM may come when you get those points and since as mentioned above some were not avoidable, i ended up having such BDSM points if i wanted or not.
All clear now?
 

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In a harem the male has relations with each of the women in that harem, 1 on 1 o 3-4 somes but those women don't necessarily have strong relations with each other (although they may). But basically harem relations are mainly sexual with maybe 1 of the females being the favorite. Polyamory however involves FEELINGS. Love among the people involved in a polyamory relationship, not only sex. There are different possible combinations in polyamory relatioships but the type discussed here in relation with DMD is that of a man (in this case F) being in either a harem or a polyamory relation with D + 1 (or 2) of the other characters who could fill that role (like Elena or Georgina or Jen or even Rachel.. or any 2 of them). The kind of relation that would come out of such combinations would more probably be a polyamory thing rather than a harem. Because strong FEELINGS already exist between each of the participants and each other participant, within the limits of the DMD story but also with the potential of developing those feelings even more.
so the paths that I'm following is F+D+E+J But no threesome with any character. and no M+f sharing and another paths that I am following it's basically the same as the first one the only difference in I'm only allowing one treesome and that's with E and another paths that I am following it's basically just F+D no other girls no threesome with any character. and no M+F sharing
so to any of these paths that I'm following leads for polyamory relationship or harem relationship?
 
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