Honestly i guess this grumpy member, it's either a troll or a really angry fan that try to gaslight each and everyone of us in believing him + kinky shaming in a way the "vanilla stuff" of DmD. When a member of the project talk directly to you, explaining evetything point by point, in a polite way. Explaining also why this and that has been done. Not only that but He explaining that idea are just idea, concept that you'll like into something, you think about it, if you like it enough ( or you know you can do it) well you keep it and if not, you just discard it, no big deal.
Another thing, why a lot of incest game aren't banned from Patreon? Quite simple, two things are to take into consideration, firstly they aren't know as much as DmD and secondly as pointed out earlier, they also aren't reported it yet. Is it something good to be reported because of that, i ain't judge of that. The thing is, i get it you're angry you don't get your kink of NTR and BBC, we all get it but is it a valid reason to pollute this topic and start an argument based on what? Sexual preferences? It's quite simple, you don't like DmD anymore? not a problem, you stop to play it and support it and you find another game that satisfies you. To tell you a little story, sometime ago i supported a game on patreon, it was good, good story, good graphic and good kinky ( or at least my kind of kink) then it's started to implement NTR (Netorare in this case) not avoidable, i simply stopped to play it and support it, i even DM the creator thanking him to have made this game but that'll stop supporting it because he went the NTR route. No big deal at all. Just don't kink shame and try to demolish every and each argument presented to you. By someone who is in direct contact with the creator.