I think
GandalfTheGrey91 summed up this debacle nicely, though he's certainly missed a few points such as Ero going dark on his top tier patrons (etc.). There are plenty of devs at all levels of renown that have proven their commitment to consistent updates and/or transparency - such as the devs in my sig or the countless others here in this thread.
The primary redeeming quality of DB has always been the render quality as it's rare to see devs take the risk with how long renders will take because of it. The story served as a scapegoat for Ero to avoid implementing further lewd scenes with the more popular characters, which ended up giving him leverage in delaying the game by playing on his Patrons' hopes.
It seems I dodged a massive bullet with this VN when I decided against subscribing to his Patreon. Instead it's going to a dev pushing out weekly updates and making good progress despite being in the middle of a war. Cheers Ero!