Yeah, but none of those are failures, none of those events happen without the input of the main character, none of those events happen because the character is weak and gets beaten. Like I asked, if it was the Male MC, not the secondary female MC would you consider it a positive outcome for him to be raped for the story? I doubt it, it is a failure in the story for that to happen.
If you really can't see the difference between the MC defeating an enemy in battle, Asha, and sharing someone with a good friend, Igor, and a main character being beaten and raped then idk what to say.