i dont know if id consider myself a harem purist. but i dont mind if they have/had someone else at some point. hell Netori is a good kink. usually the only time it bugs me is if its the daughter or sister but even then its only if they're young. like the daughter of this game. if they're like lets say in the mid-twenties then i'd be like "...she's crazy isnt she"
when it comes to other girls like the Elysion girls im ok with them being sexual and even the first club chick is ok since her interaction was with MC. could have gone without seeing prestons wife blow him but that's just me. as for Anna..apparently shes more intense. again im ok with it as long as i dont have to see something like a gangbang on stage. or anything with another dude. if it HAS to be something like that i'd reccomend making it optional. either her with a bunch of guys or with other girls. or a third option to simply leave early.
as for Yumi...cant we just knock her up already.