Thanks console commands are much better for me.it isnt in the drawer its under the bed and that hotfix looks correct it is just adding a archive file with the new code im not sure if it will overwrite correctly with out unpacking it, easy test talk to anyone on the streets near the kebab seller and if you dont error you are up to date.
if you still cant find the plug see my work around HERE
FYI - the link link you posted won't work for everyone, when linking to a post you need to remove the page reference. I have my F95 set to show a different number of posts per page so the page numbering breaks.
This will work for people with the same number of posts per page:
fashion-business-ep-2-v0-13-decentmonkey.11501/page-115#post-3635217
This will work for everyone:
fashion-business-ep-2-v0-13-decentmonkey.11501/post-3635217
For anyone else stuck the console command for putting the but plug under the bed is
$ move_object("ButtPlug", "basement_bedroom2")