The after breakfast jobs seem to run in a sequence of 2 days picking apples, one day cleaning the barn, and then 3 days looking for eggs - (and on the 7th day you go to Church
).
When you first sit down to breakfast you can ask what are we doing today and she will tell you - then when breakfast finishes you can go straight outside and set the trap (there is no time penalty for doing it) and then go back to the kitchen and meet Aunt and go.
I check the job first and then 'go back' if I need to add relationship points!
The coop events were a way to get to the tennis and give her the ring back - I waited until I had the 'both' option and relationship points were over 40 - which I think I read somewhere.
You also get the massage her bad back option - which was a bit of a disaster, as I think the images didn't work properly and I suspect a lot of us were hoping that would be fixed and there would be some serious progression of that 'opportunity' in this update. That was massage option 1 (clothed) - we have No2 on the tennis table (topless) and No 3 on the couch after the eggs trap (pantsless) -
don't you think it's about time the silly woman realises she wants an all over nude massage!
Then you start to go alone, and you need to persuade Ann to come with you so you can see the diary pages - pretty certain there are just 4 so far, and then the snake 'excuse' triggers, and no more coop closing.
I like the jealousy angle - if you watch the romantic movie with Rhonda, there are two pics of Aunt after Rhonda says goodnight with that look on her face.
I have not raised suspicion as it was hinted at earlier that it would stop you seeing good stuff, but it might be worth a try now.
Also plan to check out the door movement, during the 80$ bang Ann bit, mentioned a few posts back - that might well be Rhonda though - we know she peeks!
All these little nuances are quite good, but I still stick to my theory this game needs an achievements system.