In the full game there'll be lots of powerups, so it'll be much easier if you use powerups well
This has been greatly blown out of proportion; in the time that Steam has allowed adult games on the service, they have banned a total of under 10 games, while allowing many more games on with bestiality, rape, necrophilia, tentacles, incest, you name it. I can't count on both hands and feet how many H game devs I know who put their game up on Steam and sold perfectly fine with it, no troubles, no bans, no nothing.
The only games that got banned off the service fall into two categories;
1) Underage characters either through blatant means (whether they have sex or not is irrelevant, if the game has sexually implied or sexually suggestive images of those characters, you're getting hit) or through saying the game's characters are "all depicted as 18+" which is a dead giveaway to steam that they're not (and even if they are, people who post that = nuked)
2) Characters in high school settings, as an offset of #1
Whether you agree with the policies or not is completely up to you, but the fact of the matter is, Steam is objectively far less restrictive than ANY other platform in existence when it comes to adult content besides DLSite, and DLSite ENG and JPN both require you to censor your work visually (as well as taking 40% minimum profits, up to 80% total, and having a fraction of Steam's userbase).
Plus, the "troubles" that come with putting your stuff on Steam is the same as any other service, in that you upload it to their specifications, go through their rules, the end. If we get banned off Steam, then that's not really going to somehow cripple us elsewhere, it'd suck, but not trying to get your game on Steam because of a few people who got banned for rules 1 and 2 above when your games have neither of those would be pretty much shooting yourself in the foot.
And as was talked about up above, our stuff is relatively tame compared to stuff that's gotten on there that's far more extreme and has had no issues selling and staying on the service.