I don't think anyone has any issue with waiting, paying for the game or whatever else.
Mostly I think some are just annoyed with the estimates. And as someone pointed out, estimates are just estimates. Indeed they are, but they are based on information. I mean I assume there's a reason the estimate is late this month/early next instead of 5 minutes from now or some time in november. But ofc, the creator is in her full right to say it's out in 5 minutes from now, or in november, she doesn't owe us - or atleast not me - anything. I'm simply assuming the estimates are honest and not random dates, though I have wondered about why it's always late month/early next month. It's kinda like when I'm late for work and I call in, I'm always telling them I might be 10 minutes over, most of the time I'm actually 20 over, I know this, but I keep saying 10.
To use an analogy I think is very fitting. As hinted, I'm chronically late.
A good mate put me on the spot one day when I was my usual one hour late when I'm visiting him.
He said something like "you know you're always late, so why do you keep saying you'll be here at a certain time when you by experience have no reason to believe you will be? It's bloody disrespectful"
I had to aknowledge his point. Since then I've stopped giving times I have no reason to believe I will keep, instead I'm just giving him a "I'll be there at the latest XX:XX", which works for both of us. Ofc if I even failed to show up at the latest time announced he would really have a reason to be annoyed with me, but so far so good.
So my point is that I know by experience I'm always late to time agreed upon, and knowing that, the way I see it I'm basically lying to people if say I will be somewhere when I know I most likely won't be.
The other explanation to lying I can see is if I would have been so lacking of self awareness that my thoughts are "I've been late to meet my friend every time, and every time I've believed I would be on time. But that's zero reason to believe I'm gonna be late next time, so I can just keep saying I'll be there at time agreed upon."
Even if I had the best reasons to be an hour late, continuously finding myself in situations where I saved lives, I would still be n hour late.
Reminds me of the quote credited to Albert Einstein: The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
Hopefully my analogy will make sense.