Well - meanwhile tried your cards as promised.
I´m using same resolution as you and GraphicsMode, but as Skeltom already noted I also can´t find significant quality loss ingame.
Indeed there is a difference between charamaker and game, I guess due to different lighting settings - see screenshots
The GraphicsMode settings you can open with F5 (after launching), but this isn´t as easy as DHH and more for experts - recommended to leave it as it is, otherwise you can mess up your game completely.
Your launcher settings are ok - you didn´t activate "Better Anti-Aliasing" (as Metaru warned you). It´s an outdated graphic enhancer mod and completely substituted by DHH or GraphicsMode.
Choose only 1 setting to avoid conflicts.
Btw the 2 cards are completely the same character, 1 card has an additional top.
Pls note that the used Squeeze Socks have a body preset without any physics (no breast jiggle, cock clipping with vagina).
Better use these (type "skindentation" into search area)
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