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Speaking of crazy b... I mean girl 
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Don't call out my Ride or Die.Speaking of crazy b... I mean girl
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Kind of?
Sure, she's fun in the game, but she's downright nuts. Apparently brilliant, but still nuts.
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All the women I like\love are crazy bitches. That doesn't mean they're sluts or anything like that. The term “crazy bitch” is often used as a term of endearment.
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Bitch is always derogatory, even if affectionate. Only one worse is Cunt (here in the US, anyway. It seems to mean something different in the UK).
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I've tended to use "bitch" as derogatory, but honestly prefer to use it for males with a machismo complex. Nothing is more insulting to some guy that thinks he's the most alpha alpha on the planet than to call him a bitch. Add in "if I want any more lip from you, I'll rattle my zipper" and watch the games begin. Be prepared to nut the guy after he starts to throw the first punch, then a knee to the face or just under the chin as he's going down, and you'll usually be alright.
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Oh, yeah! That word means something completely different in the male community, especially in the gay male community!I've tended to use "bitch" as derogatory, but honestly prefer to use it for males with a machismo complex. Nothing is more insulting to some guy that thinks he's the most alpha alpha on the planet than to call him a bitch. Add in "if I want any more lip from you, I'll rattle my zipper" and watch the games begin. Be prepared to nut the guy after he starts to throw the first punch, then a knee to the face or just under the chin as he's going down, and you'll usually be alright.
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Call 'em "bottom bitch" - they probably don't know that's a place of honor in a brothel - machsimo dudes are usually on the lower end of the IQ scale.Oh, yeah! That word means something completely different in the male community, especially in the gay male community!
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No, it's not. Not always.
I'm not from the UK, and I don't know where you live in the US, but just so you know, I'm a Texan woman, have lived in and visited practically every state in our country and many others around the world...
The fact that a word is derogatory lies in the desire to insult the person. You could say the same thing about the word “smart”. Depending on your tone, the person you're talking to will be insulted or complimented. When my man calls me a “crazy bitch”, I know he's not looking down on me, and I know I asked for it. And if I call him a “cunt”, it always makes him laugh a lot. What's much more derogatory is when someone who thinks they're clever indirectly insults another person by using the comments of a conversation in progress, where he or she invites him or herself, always indirectly of course. It's also insulting communities under the pretext that they don't share the same values as you, and here I feel insulted in more ways than one as a bisexual. Another piece of information for you and those who seem to share the same thoughts, me and my man (Brout and Minou) are both very involved in the protection of abused people, particularly with women's protection associations.
I'd like to continue this conversation in an intelligent and respectful manner, but it seems (maybe I'm wrong) I can sit on the respect given the turn of the comments above, and I don't intend to engager childish bickering and troll the topic with this type of derailing.
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Native Texan, too. Family goes back to the "Old 300". I believe when the term is used in general, it is taken as an insult by virtually everyone, with the exception of those for whom it has become an odd form of endearment or between family/close friends. If I were to walk up to you and call you a bitch, I'd expect you or your guy to deck me - every person I know would expect the same, and, with nearly 60 years on this planet, I know one or two. Some people take derogatory things and turn them on their ear to be perverse. If someone outside of your circle were to hear that term spoken to you, I suspect every such individual would think you were being insulted. The exceptions to the rule that you are pointing out are so specific that they discount to about zero for anyone you'd ask on the street.
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Well, I am not exactly sure of what this part of your post means, if it's directed at me. As to the rest, I also am pushing 60, and have lived in, visited, and worked in a larger than normal number of states in this country. I grew up in the Bronx, in a less fortunate area of that borough in a time where the problems were legendary. I've been blessed with an interesting career in IT for thirty years, and was in the military before that, and saw much of southeast Asia while stationed in Okinawa. I am not some kid spouting crap from my parents' basement. Take that as my bonafides, or not.
I mean what I say about derogatory terms, having spent much of my first 20 years learning to weaponize language in order to provoke response. I enjoyed fighting and enjoyed conflict, and had a lot of anger. I've spent a lot of time trying to learn to be a better person, but words are triggers, even if we don't want them to be. "Reclaiming" words are difficult, and while you might bandy the word bitch around with those close to you, anyone who casually overhears will not likely have the same opinion of your words as what you intend. This conversation is rather like the "N" word. My black friends might or might not use the word among each other like it was a friendly term, but if I was to do the same it would definitely generate a different reaction (I'm not black). Other African-Americans hate that word with every fiber or their being.
Me and my friends would call each other some pretty horrible things, and we would intend it to be irreverent but fun. Sometimes feelings would get hurt, even though the intent was not for that. I'm not denying that you and those close to you use the word affectionately, but that is not the norm, and you wouldn't call a stranger that, without expecting shit to get real.
I know that the written word in a forum does not always make meanings, humor, or nuance clear, and can be taken multiple ways. I was mostly joking about the word "cunt". That was about the worst thing you could call a woman in my day. It was the "C" word (just like the "N" word), while bitch didn't have a Capital Initial. I was really into British gangster films for a while, and "cunt" was bandied about, and not generally about women or their parts. That's what my statement was regarding, though I didn't explain it as such.
I generally am not shy about being strong spoken in a general sense, and I love engaging in debate and conversation. I don't like unintentionally offending anyone. I certainly didn't mean to offend you, though you have my interest. I'm not sure if I should feel offended by your comment. Please make it clear either way, and we can discuss privately.
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In this case I agree with you, although my man would laugh and ask me first what he should do with the arrogant individual (which has already happened). In addition, we're in a profession that exposes us to a fair amount of inappropriate behavior, which allows us, or in some cases obliges us, to deal with things differently. You're right to point out that context prime first, and it's in the context of the game, and me as MC, i.e. having a particularly complicit relationship with the one called Darci, that I used this term, which seems to me to fit perfectly into your description of what you seem to consider acceptable. I'm sorry if you or anyone else took this at face value. I am not, nor is my man, the type to hurl insults gratuitously, on a forum debating games I consider a hobbit. If I want or need to insult someone, it will always be face to face with that person as I'm rather upfront and won't hesitate to explain to them how I'm going to rip them to shreds. That said, it takes a lot to get me to this point. Yes, hot-blooded Texan, but with the wisdom of age I guess? So try not to take anything I (or my man) write at face value, we're in playful mode here. Anyway, I'm relieved to be able to clear up this... misunderstanding? with you, and I hope that our next conversations will be in a cordial tone.
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I admit I was a little defensive, not knowing what weight and direction to give to your words, so I intentionally poked you (indirectly of course) to end the intrigue. I hope that unease has now cleared up.
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Anyway, I think it's time to stop derailing, if we don't want a Mod to get angry and delete our messages, so I'd suggest, if you're interested, continuing our discussion privately. Many of my friendships began with a heated conversation, so feel free to hit me (my butt is tender and firm at the same time) in pm.
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I just want to say it's good to see you out and about ...
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Hey youI just want to say it's good to see you out and about ...
Hehe, me too to be honest. It's been a while since we've been here. Not as much as I would have liked, but we'll get there eventually.
Lmao wtf is stabby doing here
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Same thing he does everywhere: mayhem.
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Found this while playing Pale Carnations' last update