Yeah, I get what you are saying, and that first impression could prove tough to overcome. I would say he was building towards a more tolerable set of girls, but at this point we will never know. He supposedly was nearing completion of version 5 (days away at the time) then vanished from this scene.
Above, I am not sure I agree with
DA22 on humiliation being the end-all for NTR, at least it is not why I like NTR plotlines. Maybe I don't use NTR correctly, but I just want stakes in the game, not just "can I bang the chick or not?" Gameplay should reward, but also punish, players for their decisions. Not punish as in endless mini-games and grinding, but the loss of love interests to other dudes. But this is not a critique of DA22 (who I largely agree with), nor is it a conversation on NTR. It is a conversation on a game that was polarizing, and still at this late date holds interest for many. That is a pretty telling fact.