Honestly I don't remember exactly. The only thing I remember is that it took a lot of trial-and-error...
But I'm sure that on the other paths you'll also get to shag her eventually...
Given the personalities of both Jo and the twins I didn't find that so surprising, hence my "objection" to Jo's technical virginity.
Probably Jo leans more to women but still I'd expected her to do something either with a lot of fingers or toys.
I guess I need to replay those scene but I think mom took it pretty hard on all the paths... Not sure how to compare those.
I have enough of that IRL, in my games I want some challenge...
No, seriously, I think in most of the cases it's just bad writing. In my opinion the story makes the sex stuff much more meaningful and, well, sexy. E.g. if a girl has a complicated back story and a lot of hang-ups about sex, then finally doing it with her is much more meaningful.
My objection to harems is that IRL, it just doesn't work like that. The girls will have an opinion about each others, rivalries and fights will occur etc. I get that this is just a fantasy but on the other hand I find realistic writing generally more appealing. Some games however do manage to hit the sweet spot between harem believability and porn value. Midlife Crisis is presently one of my favourites of that genre.