- Aug 22, 2018
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They have literally just been talking about the dev being sick, right above your post.....
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- Nov 20, 2018
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I hope that one day we can see the mother on all fours.
The last update was after a year of waiting
the next one will probably be three years later
- Jul 25, 2017
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We wrote that Kaffekop had health problems and that for us who have been following him since the beginning he is a friend and not just a game developer. Don't you think it's strange that we don't ask or better we don't wonder when the next UPDATE will be?
Instead we continue to wish him a speedy recovery and that he will soon return to write in this forum and that this game can continue with its intriguing and engaging storyline. The reason? The man is worth more than anything.
Instead we continue to wish him a speedy recovery and that he will soon return to write in this forum and that this game can continue with its intriguing and engaging storyline. The reason? The man is worth more than anything.
- Sep 16, 2020
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Pretty sure this is abandoned, need a patron to confirm since announcement is behind a paywall but it doesn't look good...
- Apr 26, 2020
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Nope, he's in rehab for becoming addicted to painkillers after a severe back injury, he'll be back when he is better.
- Sep 12, 2018
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that announcement has been posted here a few pages back: https://f95zone.to/threads/sins-of-the-father-v0-7-kaffekop.7307/page-171#post-5567248
if you dont have time to read it, Hornyy has summed it all nicely in his post above.
- Jul 4, 2018
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The whole reason got into these games was a back injury in 2019.I'd be up for weeks at a time before i could even catch an hour or 2 of sleep. but I always turned down opiates because of the reason the dev has to deal with. 9 epidurals and 2 years later im actually good now. So I wish him all the power in the world to kick that addiction because Ive seen many people either die from od,suicide, or end up in prison because of them.
- Sep 22, 2020
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If its a codeine addiction from pain i can tell you from personal exp that its no joke when you take it you feel great and the pain is gone and the pain comes back and you think welll one more wont hurt and then the pain comes back and another one and another one down down down the spiral you go and depending on how you can handle withdraw it can take years to recover from it. Addiction is a form of madness almost i hope that you Kaffekop can recover and have a family or friends to help though this dark time
- Nov 11, 2017
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At least we know Kaffecop is still alive, that's a plus. He'll get back to this when he gets back to it.
- Aug 6, 2019
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Come On, When the update will release?
I Miss it...
I Miss it...
- Feb 18, 2018
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We all do but read the past couple of pages brah. It has been a couple of months or so since the dev entered rehab so we should hear something soon.
- Aug 6, 2019
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- Sep 22, 2020
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Would be nice but withdraw and rehab mess with your life big time he may not even be able to do this any more hopeing for the best
- Jul 25, 2017
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Please can we think positively about Koffe Kop's future and forget the scientific discussions about will he recover, won't he recover, is it easy, is it hard etc etc
We wish KaffeKop a fast and quick return and since Sins of the father is his creature, he will hardly abandon it. Best wishes to you KaffeKop
We wish KaffeKop a fast and quick return and since Sins of the father is his creature, he will hardly abandon it. Best wishes to you KaffeKop
- Jun 18, 2017
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Hey guys and gals
Long time no update on anything. I know, I know ... I am a dick when it comes to keeping you guys in the loop - not just you actually. Not that it is any consolation. Change does not come easy and this is something I am still working on ... thirty years later.
I am alive and kicking. Some days I still feel like I am more kicking than alive, but I am getting there. I have made a few new friends and the therapists are great. One of them even caught a serious mistake in how I have been medicated - the past ... well ... probably six years and maybe longer.
Back when I started out on my journey with my new friends Oxy and Codein I was to be getting Oxy as a "prolonged release drug" and the Codein as a quick fix on days when my back was really fucking with me. Somewhere along the way some signals or wires have been crossed so that Oxy ended up been a regular dose of medicine and not the "prolonged release drug" that was to help me fighting my back pains.
Fast forward to some weeks ago when a therapist suddenly asked me, why I had not been on the "prolonged release drug" instead of the regular Oxy? I was absolutely dumbfounded because that was the idea. She fixed this and now I am correctly medicated.
As someone who has had 24/7-365 back pains for almost twenty years, suddenly being correctly medicated is ... I am not sure how to describe it. I mean, I am feeling a huge relief in my pains all of a sudden and I am soooooo fucking happy about that! On the other hand I am furious and in a fucking murderous mood when I think about my doc.
I took a serious nosedive mentally and trust wise when I learned that I had been wrongly medicated for so many years. I was ready to up and leave to go hunt down my doc and go medieval on his ass! How did he miss this? What the fuck had happened, since I ended up on a different form of medication than the one I was supposed to be on? How did I miss it?
Suffice to say I took a dive into a very dark place, but thanks to said therapist I am returning to "normal" (whatever that is these days?) and realizing that it does me no good beating myself (or my doc) up over the past, as I have no power to change it. Focus should be on tomorrow ... always on tomorrow. She is great!
We are currently debating whether or not I should stay for another round of 16 weeks. She thinks that it is a good idea as I, in her opinion, still need help saying goodbye to the regular Oxy drug. Codein is already a thing of the past, so right now we are down to the regular Oxy and the "prolonged release drug" Oxy.
We will see what happens. In all fairness it broils down to my doc signing off on another stay and thus paying for it (well not him personally, but our public medicare thing). Something I have no control over. If he still holds true to his original promise of letting me stick around for another 16 weeks, if I needed it, I may be be inclined to take him up on his offer. We will see.
What about the project? I hear you cry. No worries, it will not be abandoned, it is simply delayed! I need to be all fixed before moving forward with the project and that is a process that can not be rushed - or so they say.
I will have more to tell you when this month comes to a close and I know what road I will be on.
You a ll have a good one and enjoy life to its fullest ... and stay safe.
Cheers - Kaffekop
Long time no update on anything. I know, I know ... I am a dick when it comes to keeping you guys in the loop - not just you actually. Not that it is any consolation. Change does not come easy and this is something I am still working on ... thirty years later.
I am alive and kicking. Some days I still feel like I am more kicking than alive, but I am getting there. I have made a few new friends and the therapists are great. One of them even caught a serious mistake in how I have been medicated - the past ... well ... probably six years and maybe longer.
Back when I started out on my journey with my new friends Oxy and Codein I was to be getting Oxy as a "prolonged release drug" and the Codein as a quick fix on days when my back was really fucking with me. Somewhere along the way some signals or wires have been crossed so that Oxy ended up been a regular dose of medicine and not the "prolonged release drug" that was to help me fighting my back pains.
Fast forward to some weeks ago when a therapist suddenly asked me, why I had not been on the "prolonged release drug" instead of the regular Oxy? I was absolutely dumbfounded because that was the idea. She fixed this and now I am correctly medicated.
As someone who has had 24/7-365 back pains for almost twenty years, suddenly being correctly medicated is ... I am not sure how to describe it. I mean, I am feeling a huge relief in my pains all of a sudden and I am soooooo fucking happy about that! On the other hand I am furious and in a fucking murderous mood when I think about my doc.
I took a serious nosedive mentally and trust wise when I learned that I had been wrongly medicated for so many years. I was ready to up and leave to go hunt down my doc and go medieval on his ass! How did he miss this? What the fuck had happened, since I ended up on a different form of medication than the one I was supposed to be on? How did I miss it?
Suffice to say I took a dive into a very dark place, but thanks to said therapist I am returning to "normal" (whatever that is these days?) and realizing that it does me no good beating myself (or my doc) up over the past, as I have no power to change it. Focus should be on tomorrow ... always on tomorrow. She is great!
We are currently debating whether or not I should stay for another round of 16 weeks. She thinks that it is a good idea as I, in her opinion, still need help saying goodbye to the regular Oxy drug. Codein is already a thing of the past, so right now we are down to the regular Oxy and the "prolonged release drug" Oxy.
We will see what happens. In all fairness it broils down to my doc signing off on another stay and thus paying for it (well not him personally, but our public medicare thing). Something I have no control over. If he still holds true to his original promise of letting me stick around for another 16 weeks, if I needed it, I may be be inclined to take him up on his offer. We will see.
What about the project? I hear you cry. No worries, it will not be abandoned, it is simply delayed! I need to be all fixed before moving forward with the project and that is a process that can not be rushed - or so they say.
I will have more to tell you when this month comes to a close and I know what road I will be on.
You a ll have a good one and enjoy life to its fullest ... and stay safe.
Cheers - Kaffekop
- Apr 26, 2020
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Take the next round of 16 weeks if your doctor thinks you need it!!!
Health ALWAYS comes first! I can understand wanting to go medieval on your former docs ass but always let cooler heads prevail
most of us here will be here when you come back with a bounce in your step from no more backpains!!!
Stay safe and get better!!!!
Health ALWAYS comes first! I can understand wanting to go medieval on your former docs ass but always let cooler heads prevail
most of us here will be here when you come back with a bounce in your step from no more backpains!!!
Stay safe and get better!!!!
- Sep 12, 2018
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yup, and lets not forget that great she-therapist he is talking about so much!Take the next round of 16 weeks if your doctor thinks you need it!!!
Health ALWAYS comes first! I can understand wanting to go medieval on your former docs ass but always let cooler heads prevail
most of us here will be here when you come back with a bounce in your step from no more backpains!!!
Stay safe and get better!!!!
Kaffekop
As someone who also suffers chronic back issues, due to spinal degradation and resulting in having to have 3 surgeries for my neck and 4 for my lower back and spine (my last one was October of 2020), I can honestly say that I understand the level of suffering that you’ve had to endure and have had to live with.
I have been fortunate in my own adventure of back and spinal problems that I’ve not become heavily dependent on the Codeine and Flexeril that I am prescribed to try and manage the pain that I endure on a daily basis… or when I do something overly stupid (like sitting at the computer for too long or household chores that I know I shouldn’t be doing).
My advice to you is simply this…
~Jack
As someone who also suffers chronic back issues, due to spinal degradation and resulting in having to have 3 surgeries for my neck and 4 for my lower back and spine (my last one was October of 2020), I can honestly say that I understand the level of suffering that you’ve had to endure and have had to live with.
I have been fortunate in my own adventure of back and spinal problems that I’ve not become heavily dependent on the Codeine and Flexeril that I am prescribed to try and manage the pain that I endure on a daily basis… or when I do something overly stupid (like sitting at the computer for too long or household chores that I know I shouldn’t be doing).
My advice to you is simply this…
- Get the help you need while it is offered and available to you. Addiction is a tricky thing and from the sounds of it, you are only just now coming out of the dark tunnel you’ve been in. Take a little more time to get used to handling pressure and pain in a controlled environment, before striking off on your own.
- Don’t focus on the past or the mistake your doctor made. Getting off the pain killers make you edgy and affects your personality and tendency to anger quickly… focusing on it only creates and increases that irritation. Let it go and focus instead on our present health, we can’t change the past.
- You’ve handled the physical part of coming off your addiction, now focus on the mental part… this will better prepare you from having mental triggers that will confuse mental pain with physical pain… and it will help to ground you better in moving forward, both in your daily life and work on the game in the future.
- Lastly, remember that you are not alone in this and if you ever need to talk with someone who is undergoing the same problem as you when it comes to physical disabilities, then feel free to contact me. We may be broken physically, but not mental and still have value in this life.
~Jack