A person could fell out of love once learning something about the person they don't like. Example is I have the perfect wife. Later you find out, she been having gang bangs behind your back and none of your kids are yours. Maybe I misunderstanding something.
That's why communication is important early on or as early as possible.
If someone's wife goes to the extent of having gangbangs behind their husband's back, either a need is not being met or she is just that sexually deviant. Either way, that tells you the communication between the two of them is awful or non-existent.
Something like this could definitely work. I don't have a problem with a request for her to stop for whatever the reason may be that the game's character may indicate but personally I'd like to see an option where if the player character is pursuing more than just Lilian, that Lillian tell him "no, that's okay, if you're going to be playing around with more girls than just me, I'll keep my webinars going as well, thank you very much." It's a two way street which many players seem to forget.
what I just saying a person can have a reason for there feels change for another person. Clear communication on important subjects is really important to try to avoid any misunderstands or conflicts on issues. You what to know what you are getting into and chance to go forward or not.
I could see that happening. Most players would not see that coming and get the rejecting message. As most players are not going to try to keep their saves a part. I don't know how she would have found out. I would be using some ninja stealth skill.
As long as it out in the open. There would be at least a chose in the matter.So, I'm guessing that this is to try and let the largest player base enjoy the game as possible. Which makes sense. There have been several people who have been displeased about the Lillian content, and several people who think it fits her and like it or don't mind it. When you make a game, it makes sense to want to be able to appeal to as large a group as possible.
I think this is a central point. People want different amounts of "realism" in different places in their wish fulfillment fantasies. Some like girls swooning over them immediately, some like some kind of convincing needed. Here of course we have an imbalance if we have the (I think more common) version of the harem where MC is the only man for a multitude of women who are all happy with it. Which I agree has all kind of unfortunate implications but we will just ignore them. Others will stop and consider this a deal breaker, maybe not even because of kinks but because of "these girls' behaviors are too perfectly fitted for the situation it ends the suspension of disbelief". Basically the characters switch from being characters to care about to cardboard cutouts in your mind.
Definitely but when it comes to sex, asking her to stop might be the equivalent of asking a man to no longer masturbate. Good luck with that. All because the other person isn't comfortable with other people seeing her naked body. Now that's just selfish if you ask me.
You're right about me at least. But ... the reason I would still like it to be more than a simple "okay" is that the general quality of the characters and game is such that it seems wrong to have her stop with not even a discussion, nothing in return for compromising her desires. That's a girl giving in to a guy's wishes with no thought for herself, and that's not Lillian.
Fully agreed. I love those harem games as much as I love ones where I am forced to make choices between girls. It's all fantasy. I judge no one on their fantasies. I have my own selection of fantasies that are inappropriate for the real world.
That's a great perspective that I had not considered! It would perfectly satisfy me and the players who want her to stop.
Eric Grey
Reminds me of the bruhaha that hit in Sunshine Love when Nichole (MC's "back home" partner--their relationship is not good) suggests an open relationship while they are apart. This was an easy way for the MC to start seeing locals without feeling he's cheating. People were afraid that we'd be "forced" to see her encounters, others were upset at the idea that she might be seeing someone even if we never saw it or heard about it.
I wanna say, "You realize, don't you, that neither Lillian or her unseen viewers are real, right?"
All in good fun my compadre. However it does bring into question how many people would react if their partner would be into this same thing irl and how they would handle it as well, I wonder. They might say it is just a game but I don't doubt that many would still hold true to these same beliefs.
