I get that you are preparing us to the end of the game. I don't get why you are hiding the scenes that shouldn't be hidden (except Mary, Becca, Elaine and a bit of Maddie scene, of course). You explained that moment, I can only accept it, it's your game. And more of that, you explain things to players, that's greatly appreciated.
About "Sandy doing it alone". It's my bad, I'm not native English speaker, I guess I chose words wrong, what I wanted to say is without "full pregnant harem (FPH for short)" MC talks with girls about the future wedding as an event that comes without his involvement. In preparation, not participation. MC knows about wedding, Sandy (not alone, of course, there's mention in one of sisters' words that she's doing it together with Mom and Granny) organizing the event and that's all. In FPH Sandy shares her plans with MC, Mandy shares her worries with MC and Fiona... well, it was quite the difference. Well, you explained that you are interested only in FPH, stated the reasons for that. I have nothing else to say.
I still think that MNF is a great game (canon ending, as it turns out, is not for me, c'est la vie, I guess it's a matter of views and opinions) and you're a great dev. Will wait for MNM 0.3 when MC will know at last that his wife is pregnant (I guess everyone knows it already, it's quite obvious for everyone but MC).