I think you should stop typing and go to TikTok and search for nightlife in Liverpool. That is if you are unable to go out yourself, nothing beats first hand experience.
Also, I would like to know where do you get those "most men" because the sheer number of people with mixed genomes in the world simply throws that to the trash.
Please stop writing as if you are the sole owner of the truth, as if you speak for ALL men, as if what your limitations are every other man has too.
To be absolutely real, I am NOT afraid of women, instead I love them. In all shapes, sizes, groomings, colors, hairstyles, whatever... I find that diversity is the spice of life, and enjoying that diversity is absolutely delicious.
Please throw away your limitations...
Peace