Thanks for the reply
I agree that some games with housemates make sense without Incest but this is not one of them so I always expected an 'un
official' patch to appear instead of the imperfect one but will try again with V2 as before it felt odd to have to go rename character portraits just to get the patch to work...
Edit: It seems that V2 of the patch
doesn't work at all since even in the tutorial he doesnt define the characters 'correctly'. Also for some reason I cannot download the patches from here as it comes up with Did Not Connect: Potential Security Issue page on my firefox browser so I had to get it elsewhere ...