Soooo anyways, after three playthroughs i reckon ive assembled a little bit of everything.
Playthrough 1 shut down. I couldnt get past liliths hymen. It turns out you need sasha and elena as girlfriends for sleepover event. Until then youll not see the blue mist and the shovel.
Playthrough 2. Locked myself out of olivia story as many in this thread have also done. Owning the mansion locks out the visit half way through the quest chain. Still, i didnt realise for ages and managed to trigger funeral and day of the dead scenes.
Playthrough 3 (really just a save from around three hours earlier before i completed the mansion and so completing olivia story) seems to be going okay. Have mansion, have olivia, have leonara, have kaira (and mom) and paula events, have dolls and have miranda staying. Just waiting for funeral to trigger and i reckons im done at last. Theres nothing else is there?
But to help those confused.
Caroline (before day 8), then elena and sasha. Paula cafe event only triggers after elena is your official gf (until then, any time you click on exercise (even with stacks of affection) it just gives you an empty text box. Once elana is your GF the scene triggers properly). Kaira is apparently ten successful movies. Vip always triggers (for me) from notebook of sex movie. Other two are just normal movie dates. This should trigger valerie (pricipal - sorry if these names are way off). Karmen is only in town on wednesday afternoon.
For main story: complete leonara, then olivia (olivia scene can bug out leonara - never happened to me, but i read it way back around page 100). Finally complete lilith. You can start all of these quests whenever, and progress through them as far as you like, but there are steps that interfere with completion of each. For example mansion locks you out of olivia completion. Not dating both sasha and elana locks you out of sleepover which seems to be required for lilith. And as mentioned, finalising olivia locks out leonara (something to do with the leonara pairing up event at school locking out the home visit scene. I assume if you finish the olivia quest before then, the scene never triggers). As i say, i never saw it myself, so it could well have been fixed).
Visit the old lady boss on the beach at end of leonara to trigger the attack/combat event (and thus funeral). And remember if you're on the olivia quest, this may force you to restart the chain if you havent given Karmen the 2000.
Extra: 1. To access the gym you need to go on saturday and find the nice lifeguard. Talk to her to trigger event.
2. Miranda and alexia tv event happens after the mansion. A day or two later, theyll move in.
3. Be sure to not bug out the karmen/2000 dollar quest. To fix it you must find olivia again at beach, trigger story, go back to church, trigger conversation on mailing the ring, then back to maids to trigger conversation. Do those steps with no interruptions and you can meet karmen in pizza restaurant.
There. Walkthrough still applies. It just misses several triggers. The elana gf is fine but i remember sasha having a few extra steps... i forget them, but its in the post i made above. Hope this helps.
Extra 4: To those new to the game, the dev is doing a massive rework of the entire game. Its due possibly "soon"(TM). If youre super frustrated most of the issues are apparently being fixed in the new update. But if you just want to experience most of the scenes before then, the general outline above (along with the 1.2 walkthrough) should get you there.
Extra 5: Second attack doesnt appear to have any trigger, just time. I think its random. Day of the dead came swiftly after it. Once that was finished, funeral triggered at school in the cafe. Not sure if thats the actual sequence or they are just random triggers. But thats what just happened (in my second play through attack happened. Because i bugged out olivia didnt get the extra scene at school where they explain it. I saw the attack scene, then woke up to smoke everywhere. I just assumed the island was being invaded. So i reckon those two scenes are pretty much tied together). If i had to guess though, i think it triggers after x-days in the mansion.
Extra 6: The little beach hut next to the lifeguard is now available.