There's a difference between talking about mechanics and game quality and bitching about the N fetish like people like to do. First of all, SNC doesn't even come on here, so the only people who will see the bitching are people who either don't care or just want to circle jerk about it. It's in the tags, if it makes your blood boil to even see NTR mentioned, just dip. Also a lot of devs don't even know that there's a subsegment of people who hate NTR, just like there's a subsegment of people who hate big boobs. It's just another thing to most people and they don't see it as something to fucking paste trigger warnings everywhere for years in advance so people can avoid having their feelings hurt about their pixel waifus.
The dev doesn't owe randos on a pirate forum trigger warnings, and people who are giving him money specifically wanted some of that content. Also he went back and made it completely avoidable so you never have to see it so IDK why there are people still bitching about this like 10 months later.
Dev doesn't owe me anything. I don't owe you anything.
You give your opinion. I give my opinion.
For you, complaints about sandbox or game mechanics can be different, but I've seen dozens of players who love sandbox as upset as you when other players complain about sandbox, grind.
If you can't live with different opinions, you will always complain about everyone who has a different opinion here on the forum.
But you've been a member for years and you've probably understood that the threads where the DEV clarifies the type of content it's going to create are the threads with the fewest complaints. There are still some complaints on all topics, but when the DEV is clear about the content, the complaint is much smaller. Better for the DEVs. Better for the players. Better for all.
For example, I like incest. But I understand that it's a fetish that should be clear from the start, because many will complain about incest if it's only added after 2 years... If in BaD Dr Pinkcake add incest, he will be burned alive by those who don't like incest. And even though I like incest, I'd say it would be a terrible addition to his fan base.
There are a lot of fetishes that it's better for everyone if the DEV clears it up from the start. Try to Understand that not everyone has the same fetish as you.
And any forum user who doesn't have the ability to understand other opinions will spend all his time complaining about every opinion different from yours.