the thing is, when you watch a show and a very liked character dies, do you stop watching it? i will assume not. The problem is at people getting touchy over character having sex with another character, if you don't see whats wrong with it or use 'other people' as a mean to get yourself out of the way, then there's no reason to go on about arguing. Another arguement that is silly is people discussing whether its rape or NTR, does it really matter? since the first update you get to kill the dude, storywise thats a good an enough comeback honestly. If you're complaining about fetishes, you should see tangled up where girl farts at guy's face on purpose, thats just as bad, let alone the pee fetishes lol
About the show, it depends. If the character is important, my favourite, if it was killed in a good way, if it was beliavable, if it was needed or the character just dies because reasons, also depends if I'm watching the show just because I like that character, or if that characters is the only good thing of the show, there are multiple reasons for stopping to see a show when the maker of the show decides to kill a main character, and I'm not talking about said character dying to later revive, just the author suddently deciding that he should die because reasons, then maybe I stop watching it.
People get touchy when there is other guys having sex in a game, because most of the time it involves a fetish that not all like, that's NTR. All the people that want to play a game wants to enjoy it, if they, myself included, don't like to see other guys having sex in the game, unless they were in a relationship from the start of said game, then I at least stop enjoying said game. When a game that so far had one avoidable NTR scene, makes a suddent turn and update it making another NTR scene, but this time unavoidable, and on top of that a rape one, it's normal for people to be upset. Yes the dev already made said scene avoidable, but it still forced a lot of people to see a scene of a fetish they dislike because reasons. And I at least, won't keep playing this game after this last update, because if the dev can force extreme opposite fetish without making them avoidable, then what's stopping him/her from doing it again in the future?
I just posted the first reply, because I wanted to vent, to say what I felt after having invest a lot of time with this game. I wasn't even going to post anything at all at the begining, since I'm more of the lurker type, than the poster, but I got dissapointed with the last updated and with what the dev said to justify the need for such scene, saying it was "needed" for the plot, when in reality it wasn't since he/she easily made an option to avoid it, after getting the backslash from some of his/her patreons most likely.
About tangled up, I never played the game, so I can't talk. But a kink should have never been unavoidable, unless that's all the game it's for. A game should have options, since the first momment you bring an update. The NTR/rape scene was added because he/she made a poll about a NTR scene, and people said yes to it, you can look for it, it's in somewhere in this thread, but in the option with yes, said "yes, if avoidable" and then the dev proceeds to bring an update with said NTR scene but without it being avoidable.