This is why I was mocking the other guy earlier.
Why does every insecure harem-boy feel entitled to vocalize their exit? You don't see this with any other kind of group. No one ever posts "Well, I was interested in the game, but then I saw it had unavoidable incest, so..."
or
"Well, game was looking promising, but then I saw you're forced to date multiple girls at once, so...."
It's not enough to dislike something, they need to actively lobby against it, and make their presence (or lack thereof) known. The insane normalization of this behavior and almost complete absence of mod intervention across dozens of threads makes it pretty clear what kind of games mods play