i'm new here, but i blame the f95 board for having such a vague and nonsensical tagging system.
most of the complaints in this thread don't even match the "official" board definition of "ntr" because instead of listing actions (x does y with z) it lists feelings, which are entirely subjective.
look at how other devs handle the whole "cheating" issue: they present a spoiler'd list of who cheats on/with whom so people who have strong feelings can read the list and decide whether or not to participate, while those who don't care can be pleasantly surprised. that kind of disclosure should be, in my opinion, mandatory given how nuanced and divisive it is.
said list can be community submitted if the dev doesn't want to participate here. of course there's nothing to stop a dev from suddenly introducing cheating into a game that didn't previously have it...but that's no different than showrunners killing off a favorite character in a tv series because of contract negotiations or bad press or whatever. fans either adjust or move on.
Hyperserver i was all set to compliment you on being willing to wade through the ocean of leech entitlement to engage with the rare grateful fan or worthwhile feedback... then you did the whole taking my ball and going home post, boo. i hope you remember the number one rule of community feedback: it's always a tiny minority that bitches the most, because the satisfied majority don't have a reason to post most of the time.