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I understand you're feeling unheard and underappreciated, but I think you're great. If you're tired and need a break, there's no shame in stepping back for a while to reevaluate how you're approaching things and how you're letting them affect you. Going on a hike or a walk around the park is a great way to clear your head and start to reset.It wasn't all about her tbh.. I'm just tired I guess.. I say something, I get no likes.. Another says it and gets 599 likes.. I'm just tired of it..
Here I meant a harmless good comment, and it felt like I was just in the way, when I was also praising her.
I will stop talking here as well.. I mean a comment here or there but.. in general.. No..
It just feels pointless when people don't listen anyway. That same listening ability when I praised her. I could just shut up and she can listen to someone else praise her, that makes her care enough to give a thumbs up. As it's not me..
Again it 's not just here.. I'm just bloody tired..
About that specific conversation, Cryo's a great guy and a very engaging developer, but he probably can't always take the time to react and give full replies or we'd never get any updates out of him. And I'm sure you agree, the more he works the sooner we get some awesome Nyx scenes.
More generally, I think you should try putting less of your attention toward the reactions you get online. It's better to feel your self-worth personally and intrinsically than to rely on others' reactions and comments for validation. Sometimes in the online chatter, things can get overlooked, but don't let that discourage you. You should always be proud of yourself and remember that you have valuable insights and views.